Stories of Hospice

As Hospice of Lancaster County reflects on 30 years of providing comfort and care, we are reminded that stories from grateful friends and families have helped to define our organization.

We thank the many, many families who sent us personal stories of their family’s experience with Hospice of Lancaster County. If you would like us to include your Hospice of Lancaster County story on this page, please email us.

Stories are recorded by families' last names. This project is a work in progress.

A B C D E F G H I J K L M N O P Q R S T U V W X Y Z

The day we entered Hospice of Lancaster County, I knew we were in the right place. My husband, Paul, enjoyed and made stained glass as a hobby. As I walked through the halls and saw the beauty around him I knew this was right. The care given reflects the beauty and feelings of all.
Kathleen Acuazzo
Landisville, PA

Our entire family thanks you for your loving and patient care of our father before his death and your continued loving care of our mother. We are so very grateful. Blessings to all of you.
Ann & Don Ahnemann
Allendale, NJ

I appreciate what Hospice of Lancaster County did for me, when my husband was sick.
Hazel Allen
Ephrata, PA

My husband Ross passed away in 1994. I can not thank you people enough for all you did for us. Your service was gratefully appreciated. You helped with medication, with bathing and whatever we needed. I tell people about how wonderful your service is, your nurses and everyone else. I told a lot of people about hospice and they also thank you.
Mary Jane Althouse
Strasburg, PA

I cannot say enough about Hospice. I am very thankful for Hospice.
Mrs. Frances T. Atkins
New Holland, PA

Your staff is really great and we are glad to have you and appreciate the love and care you give.
Fair and Jim Ayers
Leola, PA

My dad’s name is Harry E. Bachman, Sr. Relatives and friends called him Jock, I don’t know why. Months prior to his death he was moved to live with my brother and sister-in-law. They both worked, but with help from hospice, dad was well cared for before he passed away, at home, with family by his side. Thanks Hospice of Lancaster County for the help that was provided.
Harry E. Bachman Jr.
Columbia, PA

Thank you! Come October 19th it will be seven years since my husband passed away. I still think how hospice nurses came and helped me and the family during his illness. They not only took care of Vaughn, but became very kind and helpful to me. If I needed to talk, I could always bend their ears. So by the time they left that day, not only Vaughn would feel better, but so did I, and after all this time I would like to say thank you and keep up the great work.
Kathryn G. Baker
Mount Joy, PA

Two years after my husband’s surgery to remove a malignant brain tumor, the tumor returned. Opting for no more surgery he lost his ability to walk or provide daily care for himself. Hospice helped by providing a companion to do things with him as a respite for us caregivers. When his ability to be completely mobile failed, Hospice of Lancaster County found a place where he could be properly cared for until he died. Hospice was very much appreciated.
Kathryn Nyce-Barr
Lancaster, PA

As we all sat with Marie from Thursday until the day she passed, Monday, June 7, 2010, we were so impressed with the care given to her. Everyone from Dr. Hayes, Dr. Miller, Kristin the RN and Joyce the Chaplain helped us get through this ordeal. As we told our stories about Marie, showed pictures of Marie everyone seemed to really listen and care. I highly recommend Hospice of Lancaster County to anyone who is in NEED! Again we all say, Thank You!
Linda Beasley
Mount Joy, PA

Even though we, all of "Butch's" family, hoped to care for him at home until the very end, it became necessary to move him to the Hospice Center in Mount Joy on Friday, October 29. For one whole week their kindness allowed us to give our full attention to our husband, father, grandfather, son, brother, uncle and friend as he was all these to all of us, his family. We are forever grateful.
There were many sweet moments in our life as he dealt with his cancer, many helped by the Blue Team that came to our home and the staff at hospice that last week. We were able to hold his hand on that last Friday morning, Nov. 5, as he passed into eternal life.
Brucetta Beatty
Akron, PA

My daughter died 15 years ago and you were there with us every step of the way. Without you, all we would have would have been much worse in so many ways. Her cancer came back after five years and you helped her go through it all.
Audrey B. Bechtold
Leola, PA

I had a son, David S. Bowers, who had cerebral palsy his whole life. He began to really get sick and had to be placed under hospice care. Everyone who had anything to do with David will always be praised by me and my family for the care that they gave David. He passed seven years ago. Now, just two months ago, I had a brother who was told he had cancer and was also placed under hospice care. I know that he was well taken care of until his passing away three weeks ago. My prayers go out to each and everyone who has anything to do with hospice. Thank you.
Mary Ellen Bowers
Columbia, PA

When Ben was diagnosed with terminal cancer, our doctor recommended hospice care. We are so grateful, for there was so much to take care of. Hospice of Lancaster County always knew ahead of time just what to do and what was needed. We will always be so indebted to you for your compassionate care. Not only through Ben’s illness but after he passed. We still received your services through the bereavement meetings. They were such a great help in the healing process. Many thanks.
Kay Bowman and Michele Rutter
Lancaster, PA

There aren’t any words to describe how much I appreciated your service to my mother and me. In July 2001, my mother was taken to Hospice of Lancaster County. She was there for three weeks and you took such good care of her that she was no longer in a dying mode. We had to move her to Conestoga View where she died August 15, 2001. Then, I went to your grief meetings and was ministered to more than you’ll ever know. Also, my grandson, who lived with us, went to the weekend Camp Chimaqua and was really helped. You’re a gift from God.
Diane Bretz
Mount Joy, PA

Hospice of Lancaster County first appeared on my radar in February of 2000, when my best friend, at the time, lay dying of cancer. The care he received was astonishing. In February and again in April of 2010, Hospice became my wife's final stop on her way to heaven. The love and support of the visiting nurses, chaplains, social workers and staff were exceptional. At no time did I ever feel alone. Karen's needs were met with professionalism, poise and grace. I believe there will be a special place in heaven for Hospice people. They are truly angels here on earth.
Stephen P. Brown
Mount Joy, PA

The care and respect given to our son, Kurt, including the TLC of the Hospice staff in your beautiful facility, was inspiring to our family. He was unconscious for his six day stay there before he passed away. We felt confident that he could have not been in a better place before he left us and that he was surrounded by peace and dignity in his last days.
Warren and Mary Brubaker
Hershey, PA

The hospice personnel were very comforting and supportive in the difficult time of my father’s final weeks.
David R. Buckwalter
Lititz, PA

Hospice of Lancaster County made sure the comfort level of both patient and wife were consistently checked upon throughout the last days of life. Kindness, caring and generosity were adhered to each and every day. Necessities such as medications and bed clothes were constantly watched as to ensure a peaceful and restful stay. Thank you from the bottom of our hearts for your gracious services to those who in need, and for making their transition as comfortable as possible.
Jay, Diane, and Matthew Charles
Mountville, PA

Hospice? What is hospice? It surely didn’t take me long to learn. I found it to be an outstanding organization, sharing excellent nursing care, love, kindness, spirituality and more to patients and families. My mother, sister and many friends were all given this amazing care. However, something else that says it all: A patient, who left this earth to spend her eternal life in Heaven, had no friends or family to attend her funeral. Can you guess who did attend the grave site with the funeral director? The nurse from Hospice of Lancaster County attended. Not only was she there, she also sang the patient’s favorites song, "Jesus Loves Me." She knew she was going to be the only one there. The funeral director was not the only one that saw her and heard her sing. The Lord above truly did not miss seeing and hearing her sing. This was above and beyond what anyone would expect. But this is Hospice of Lancaster County.
Mary E. Charles
Sarasota, FL

I have lost both parents and a mother-in-law in the past 2 ½ years. Hospice of Lancaster County was involved in all three deaths. I can’t say enough about how well the staff treated our loved ones, how attentive everyone was to their needs and wishes, and how comforting the Mount Joy Hospice Center was for us in our time of distress. I will never forget the beautiful setting and many thoughtful touches and kindnesses shown to us.
Elizabeth
Mount Joy, PA

My wife, Karen, was at Hospice of Lancaster County on Good Drive from March 19, 2009 through March 24, 2009 when she passed away with cancer. She received excellent care.
Since her death, and for about one year, I attended many, many bereavement workshops. I still attend the monthly men's breakfast.
I do not know what I would have done, or how I would have survived without the companionship and comfort of Hospice of Lancaster County. Thank you very much!
Rev. Richard Cook
Manheim, PA

There isn't a day that goes by that I don't think of all the wonderful care you gave Clifford during his lengthy illness.
Louretta (Jan) Coulson
Lancaster, PA

Hospice of Lancaster County has been a great blessing to my family. Hospice was there for my dad in 1999. He came home for one week prior to his passing on to glory. Hospice, my mother and I, and friends helped care for him. Now, my mother is frail and feisty at the age of 90. I had hospice for her two years ago and she graduated from hospice to being stable, with help from others and myself and pain management. She is declining but with help from friends from church and Home Instead Senior Care, my husband, son and I are able to keep her at home.
Cheryl G. Cross

The compassionate and loving care of my husband of 50 years, Matt, was in a home-like environment, felt by our family. I still miss him terribly.
Barbara Culley
Lancaster, PA

My beloved father Ali received quality comfort care and support services from all the staff members, around the clock. Moreover, my family and I received caring and compassionate counseling during my daddy’s final days. It calmed our fears and soothed our intense emotional moments. We could not have made it through those dark moments without the loving and kind hearts and hands of the Hospice of Lancaster County staff. May God richly bless the hospice staff for their commitment to provide gentle and quality care for their patients and families.
Shahnaz Daneshvar
Leola, PA

Your care meant so much to mother and our family. Thanks you so much.
Dolores Devaney
Salem, OR

My—or our—journey with Hospice of Lancaster County started the last week of March, 2005. My husband, Donald, was there for one week to get his pain under control. Your staff was wonderful, very professional, kind and caring and took excellent care of Donald. You let me stay day and night, which I so appreciated. When your nurse asked Donald, “How long you have been married to Carol?” he said, “Not long enough.” Wow, what a comment. We then had home care and I took care of him for seven weeks at home. You were always only a phone call away and talked me through changing batteries, etc. He was able to pass away in our bedroom in our home. What can I say? Thank you ever so much and blessings to you.
Carol A. Diller
Lancaster, PA

This is the first time I wrote a poem. I wrote this five years ago when my wife of 53 years died. Hospice of Lancaster County was wonderful.

June
Was the most beautiful creature that god had ever created
She seen beauty in every thing
From her children and grandchildren
To family and friends

She seen beauty in every sunrise and sunset
If there was beauty in trees and flowers she found it
Including people regardless of race or creed
There was never an ounce of prejudice in her

She spoke well of everyone
And in turn loved by everyone
Weather it be ocean, land or sky, she found beauty in it
She was always a lady…and all woman when need be

She had the greatest sense of humor
And her jolly laugh will be missed immensely

She was fifteen and I sixteen
When we became high school sweethearts
Only woman I ever loved
And the only woman I ever wanted.

Bill Dillon
Lancaster, PA

I became aware of Hospice of Lancaster County and your wonderful outreach in 1984, when my dear sister, Helen, came down with a cancerous brain tumor. You people did all you could for Helen’s husband, Hiram, and youngest daughter, Vickie. Vickie moved home to take care of her mother. I remember the hospice worker (Tina Texter) expressing a lot of concern for all Helen’s family and especially Vickie. She is the youngest of Helen’s three daughters and big responsibilities were placed on her. I appreciated Tina taking Vickie to lunch and being there to encourage the family (me too) in whatever way she could. Hospice provided a wheelchair so me and my brother, Henry, could take Helen Christmas shopping (1984). As time went on, Hospice cared for some of my co-workers and then in October, 2005, you took care of my brother, George, in Hospice. Helen was in homecare. Thank you for your wonderful outreach.
P.S. My sincerest thanks also to Janet Carroll and Mary Graner for their concerns during that time.
Mary Dimitris
Lancaster, PA

Our mother died at home in May 1981, of kidney cancer. Mary Graner was the Hospice of Lancaster County nurse we worked with and she and others from Hospice provided mother the dignity, understanding and support that allowed our family to say goodbye and move on. For us, Hospice is the essence of love, understanding and support for their fellow man and will always have my support. Thanks!
The Doerschuk Families
Lancaster, PA

My husband was to go to Hospice of Lancaster County on April 28th of this year, but never made it. He passed at Johns Hopkins in Baltimore on April 27th. I’ve heard so many wonderful things about your care and am sorry he didn’t make it back home.
Jan Dorward
Ephrata, PA

Hospice of Lancaster County is a necessity in a time of need - not only for the patient, but also for the caregiver. We have seen so many folks benefit from your services. Our brother-in-law, John McKonly; a dear friend, Gene Snyder; my brother, Jim Fisher; my schoolmate, Loman McCurdy and so many more. Please keep up the good work!
Joyce and Len Droege
Lancaster, PA

Joann was a loving wife, mother, grandmother and great grandmother. She always had a smile on her face; and something good to say about everyone she met. She had a small Christmas tree which would change colors and I keep it lit in her memory. We all miss her and think of her everyday.
Her Loving Husband,
Harry Eberly
Mount Joy, PA

It started on May 5, 2009, when my wife entered LGH with severe pain around her waist. It ended with her death on May 20, 2009. I was crushed. A friend told me about PATHways Center for Grief & Loss. I called PATHways and talked to Harriet Engle. With her help, along with support given to me, I am better. In fact, 15 months later, I have met a woman, Sandy, through a co-worker at work; her older sister. Her other half died of lung cancer two years ago. I feel so alive. We click. Thanks for all PATHways has done for me. I am making it through one of the worst times of my life, the death of my wife. Thanks Harriet and the many other people who have helped me.
P.S. Sandy and I are getting married February 19, 2011.
Phillip Eby
Lancaster, PA

Dawn was brought to Hospice of Lancaster County in October 2003, in a coma from LGH. We never expected to leave Hospice. She was in a coma because of her third stroke. Dawn walked out of Hospice. Since then she has suffered from four more strokes. She now lives at Audubon Villa. My feeling about Hospice of Lancaster County: it could not have been any better. I consider it to be a great place.
Donald L. Ecenroad
Lititz, PA

Just a token of appreciation for visiting my sister, Alice Lowery, who was a patient at Conestoga View. Many thanks.
Edna Eichmann, Sister
Lancaster, PA

My story is that I still miss Dorothy after 37 months, just as much as the very first day after her death. She was so good to me and also very good at everything she did. She was a wonderful mother to our five children. She was the strongest leg of our happy family. I sincerely want to thank everyone at Hospice of Lancaster County for the loving care that we received, which allowed us to keep Dorothy at home till the end.
Walt Eppehimer
New Holland, PA

My wife, Marilyn, died in 2001 of brain cancer. Without care from Hospice of Lancaster County I don’t know how I would have managed those final months and weeks of her life. The nurses, the social workers and the volunteers were wonderful to her. I could not have cared for her at home had it not been for that team support. There came a point where I could not care for Marilyn at home and fortunately there was a room in the in-patient unit for her at Good Drive. Those last few days now seem like a blur, but during one of those afternoons I stood sort of trembling in front of the hallway fountain, not knowing if I really wanted to go in and attend a Support Group in the Library. I went through the doorway and took a seat in a circle of strangers. I don’t think I talked much that day but I felt “better” hearing others talk about what they were thinking and feeling. I know now that I had been experiencing a sense of grief and loss since her diagnosis, when the doctors said the cancer was spreading and gave us a prognosis of six months to a year. I was full of questions that I’d ask myself over and over. There were no answers but the thoughts persisted. My ability to focus or concentrate was poor. My mind wandered and my emotions surprised me. I had never experienced anything like this. I felt STUCK. After the funeral, the cards, the casseroles and people’s well–intended “you ought to do this or that”….I fell into a regular habit of attending monthly support groups. I came to PATHways Center for Grief & Loss for more than a year. These sessions were invaluable to me. The staff and volunteers provided an opportunity for me, and others, to tell our story. It was comforting to know others were experiencing similar feelings, questions, emotions, and thoughts. I quickly found that I wasn’t “crazy” and my experiences were not unique. Often there would be several of us nodding our heads as people’s stories would be told. We could identify with what was being said. People in the group “got it.” It was a safe and comfortable place to share what was on our hearts and minds. I recall driving home after one such evening reflecting how helpful the group discussion had been and thinking to myself about the role of the volunteer to Support Groups. Here individuals who had the same loss as I did and whose words of encouragement and insight to the grief journey came from experience. The next month before the session started I asked one of those volunteer about her role and training to help facilitate groups. I knew then that one of the ways I wanted to help honor Marilyn’s memory was to be a volunteer with HLC. With Hospice support I became “UN-STUCK.” Volunteering has been a series of fantastic experiences for me. There have been many roles and opportunities for me to help with. I have sat quietly with others and their thoughts. I’ve had opportunity to talk before groups. I have met many wonderful people from all over the Lancaster area, been honored to work with dedicated and knowledgeable Hospice staff professionals and made a number of lasting friendships with fellow volunteers. During the seven–plus years of volunteering I have gained insight and been honored to journey with others in their grief and loss. Hospice of Lancaster County is a tremendous resource and I’m pleased to be part of fulfilling our mission in the community.
Dan Farmer, Volunteer
Lancaster, PA

I brought Jeanne home from the hospital on March 12, 2006. A few days later, she wished so much to have her hair shampooed. I asked the gal from Hospice if this was possible. She said, "Why Sure!" I was in awe at how this was done; Jeanne, on her back in a hospital bed, with soap galore and no water. After cleanup, Jeanne was happily smiling, her head feeling clean. It was probably the last time I saw her smile. Thank you Hospice.
H. Kenneth Fausnacht
Stevens, PA

After my uncle went to the hospital, Lancaster General, we renewed our friendship and he was always my favorite uncle. He was my father’s brother and we had many good times on my dad’s and his boat. We were always having fun together and we always talked about fun times on the boat. I wish we could have spent more time together, but life as it is, we didn’t. But, I think of him every day! His memory and what he stood for will live on forever! Please tell his children that he was loved by me.
Ellis Ferguson
Lancaster, PA

Our family story goes back to the very beginning of Hospice of Lancaster County. Our niece, Laurie Flick, was one of the first patients. She passed on Jan. 9, 1980, at the age of 16. The loving attention given to her opened our eyes and hearts to this new concept of end-of-life care. In the years to follow, Hospice of Lancaster County provided needed and much appreciated care and support for our family. In 1988, when we lost our dear mother, Gorgina Flick; in 1993, a dedicated father and grandfather, Robert Harrison; and in 2006, a loving dad and grandfather, Harry Flick, Sr. We’ve also had many friends touched by the loving hands of this treasured organization. We are blessed to include in those friends, Essa Flory, for whom the Lancaster in-patient facility is named. We celebrate with you on your 30th anniversary! The services provided are a true blessing to the Lancaster County community!
Harry Flick, Jr. and Eileen M. Flick
Lancaster, PA

The care and compassion given to each family is something that is very evident. The families we know who have been served have nothing but nice things to say about Hospice, staff, doctors, facility, etc.; even those receiving care at other places of residence. The care and dedication demonstrated by Hospice is phenomenal. Lancaster County is so very lucky to be blessed with a group like Hospice of Lancaster County. I know myself and everyone at Scheid Funeral Home is so grateful.
Tom Ford with Andrew T. Scheid Funeral Home
Millersville, PA

Hospice of Lancaster County became a part of our family the last month of my husband’s life. They were there for us anytime, night or day; and were always very caring. After several years of driving for the cancer society’s Road to Recovery, my daughter and I took the classes to be volunteers for Hospice. I have been volunteering at Conestoga View for two and a half years. I try to be as caring to the patients as everyone at Hospice was to my family and me.
Del Donna Forrest
Millersville, PA

You took very good care of my sister, Florence Gabel while she was sick. They came to see her and check on her whenever needed. Her children were very pleased with the attention you gave her when she was at her worst. Also, when she was at Mt. Joy Hospice Center she was very well taken care of. When she still had her composure and knew her senses, she was very willing to talk about the good care she got from the nurses and other help. Thanks again.
Nancy W. Frantz
Denver, PA

Several years before I retired, Connie, a friend of mine and retired nurse, mentioned she thought I would do well as a volunteer at Hospice of Lancaster County. She pronounced me “trainable” so I filed her recommendation for later use. On 9/11/01, I was the watch supervisor of the control tower radar room at Pittsburgh International Airport and took part in the shut down of the air traffic system after aircraft were flown into the Twin Towers of the World Trade Center. Shortly after the Pentagon was hit, I learned a Boeing 757 had turned eastbound over Cleveland and was headed for Pittsburgh. Cleveland controllers heard a transmission from the plane which said there was a bomb on board. The 757 was flying very fast and was headed directly for the center of the radar scope where the control tower is located. Understanding the nation was under attack—and with the knowledge that we thought there were up to a dozen other aircraft missing—I evacuated the facility. After ensuring all other employees were out of the building, I left the radar room. The hijacked aircraft was 10 miles from the airport. Joining the others outside the building, we watched for the aircraft but never saw it. After about 10 minutes I returned to the radar room to see where the flight was; it was not on the radar scope. Radar recordings revealed the aircraft passed directly over the control tower. Later we learned the aircraft was United 93, which passed over us and which crashed just outside of Shanksville, about 6 miles beyond the range of the Pittsburgh radar antenna. Event reconstruction tells us that the “Let’s roll” call, the cabin attendants filling pitchers with hot water to throw on the hijackers and people calling their families to say good bye, mostly happened over the Pittsburgh airspace. United 93 had just crashed or was about to crash as I returned to the radar room. Somehow I feel there is a part of me in the ground at the old strip mine site and I visit the temporary memorial to mourn. Perhaps it is because I couldn’t do a thing for the people on that plane. No air traffic controller wants to lose an airplane. But to lose that plane on that day was especially tragic. The passengers and crew made a plan and took action. They looked evil in the eye and stopped it. I retired shortly after 9/11. In the spring of 2002 I attended Hospice of Lancaster County’s volunteer training and thought working with the bereaved would be appropriate. I found that helping others through grief has worked to lessen mine and has helped my healing. Working with those who have suffered loss and the staff of PATHways Center for Grief & Loss has not only been a learning experience, but a growth opportunity as well.
Mal Fuller
Elizabethtown, PA

I’ve donated to Hospice for quite a few years and really didn’t think much about it, until my 11-year-old grandson had a brain tumor. We needed girls to come to the house and check on him. What nice girls they were, especially the young girl that came to the home the morning he died. She mingled and served coffee, answered the phone; you hardly knew she was there. I don’t know her name, but she was an especially nice girl. That was about 21 years ago. I put a brick on the walk for him and one for my husband who passed away 11 years ago. He died the morning that Hospice of Lancaster County was to come take care of him. They are a great organization. Thank you!
Marcy Frutchey
Quarryville, PA

I want to thank you for all you have done to help make mother's (Mary E. Thome) last weeks and days less difficult. Your help at the hospital, at her home and at the hospice facility was so helpful and appreciated. All the people (Brennan, Barb, Mary, Pastor Ebersol, Diane, etc.) from Hospice of Lancaster County were wonderful.
Mary Gish
Elizabethtown, PA

’s needs. It will never be forgotten and is still great to see “staff” at the Hospice Labor Day Auction. We look forward to helping again this year, Lord willing.
Sarah F. Glick (John & Barbara Glick Family)
Gap, PA

In the last months of Barbara’s life (she died on September 19, 2005) Hospice of Lancaster County was involved daily with the care, advice, and varied help which she and I needed. On the day she died, one of the chaplains from Hospice and one of the nurses were present. The nurse described precisely Barbara’s last moments, and I found this then and many times subsequently to be a blessing. As a friend of the Irions for many years, I have thanked Paul many times for his part in sharing with Don Wilson and others the establishing of this great benison.
G. Wayne Glick
Lancaster, PA

I first heard about Hospice of Lancaster County when a young woman spoke to my P.N. graduating class in 1980. Her name was Joy Ufema. Little did I know that in nine years I would be calling on Hospice to help me care for my husband who was diagnosed with lung cancer. Of course, you didn’t have the facility you have now, but you were wonderful in the care you gave. Fate played a part in my getting involved with Hospice again, I had remarried four years after my husband’s death and thirteen years later Hospice returned to help my second husband in his battle with prostate cancer. Near the end of his brave fight you moved him into “in-patient” care and you were so tender and caring with him. God bless each of you.
Carol Eshleman Gohn
Mechanicsburg, PA

Thank you for being there for not only my mother, Erla E. Hess, whom passed away August 3, 2010, but for myself as well. Your willingness to support both of us, on her journey, was appreciated more than words can describe and I will be forever grateful. You took what would have been an unbearable situation and helped me put it into perspective which, in turn, has helped to make my grieving process so much easier to handle. I've been through three other immediate family deaths over the years (two brothers and my father) and you have helped me realize that this path was a part of life. I will miss my mother… she was my BEST friend. What amazed me …you treated her with so much respect and humbleness, you would have thought she was your best friend too! Thank you to each and every one of you that was a part of this. You truly are a God-send!
Doris E. Good
Akron, PA

I was not prepared for the “fight of our lives” seven years ago when my wife of 20 years was diagnosed with a deadly cancer and then for her eventual passing to meet her Lord. Hospice of Lancaster County came to our home and helped my children and me to face the reality of her journey, as well as to coach us on how to help her make that journey. I am deeply grateful for the presence of Hospice during the watchful care of her and then for the counseling and support we received after her battle ended. Thank you Hospice of Lancaster County!
Glen Good
Landisville, PA

Thanks to the loving care given by the nurses, aides and the volunteers of Hospice of Lancaster County, my husband and I had time to sit and give thanks for our 59 years, to reminisce and even summon courage and faith for the future. And then when I found him at 5:00 a.m., I waited a short time before the Hospice nurse arrived and in no time she was comforting me, and helping me to draw on the courage Don and I had discussed. The orange team was our team and I’d call it a heaven sent team. Thanks to each and everyone and may Hospice of Lancaster County continue to flourish in its endeavors.
Jo Good
Lancaster, PA

It’s been a little over five years now and it still sticks with me how kind and caring the entire Hospice of Lancaster County staff was with my mother and the family. Thank you for all that you did, do and will do in the future.
Randy A. Gordon
York, PA

My family and I were devastated when we had to put my husband, Frank, into hospice. However, when we visited the first time and saw how nice and attentive the staff was to the patients and cared for their every need. Although it was difficult dealing with the thought of losing him, it was much easier when we saw how wonderful and home-like Hospice of Lancaster County was. We were very relieved. Thank you so much for taking such good care of him and making his death so much easier to cope with. May God bless you always and keep you in His care.
Helen B. Grandinetti
Reinholds, PA

Let's start by telling you my grandmother was the backbone of our family and my guiding light. Right before Christmas, the year 2000, we were told the bad news. By January my grandmother was in the hospital, no longer responding to anyone. For days my family and I sat by her side with no response. Then someone from Hospice of Lancaster County came and spoke with us and the decision was made. Little did we know it would be the miracle it was! As we went through the front door of hospice my grandmother sighed and a chill ran up my spine. Later that day she opened her eyes and for the next week she played along with game shows and spent time talking with her family. I even go the piece of mind of asking her if she knew where she was and what was happening and she smiled and said I know and I am ready and it's ok. What Hospice of Lancaster County gave us in those last weeks was more than I can ever explain. The ability for her family to be by her side when she took her last breath was worth more than I can explain. I can never thank hospice enough fro those last couple of weeks with my grandmother. Thank you from the bottom of my heart.
Barbara Grochowsky
Lancaster, PA

Thanks so much for the help given to us so that our parents could spend their final days at home. Much appreciated.
Mildred Groff
New Holland, PA

My mother was under the care of Hospice from late 2000 to August 20, 2001, when she died. She loved everyone she met and got to know at Hospice. She really looked forward to their visits. She especially liked the days that Bev and Kelly were there with her. My dad was my mother's caregiver. He also became very fond of Hospice and couldn't praise Hospice enough. He also thought the world of Bev and Kelly. Everybody was so kind and thoughtful to both of my parents at this difficult time for us. We will forever be grateful to Hospice. Thank you.
Linda M. Hagey
Lancaster, PA

My father spent the last day of his life at Hospice. His room was beautiful and the people were so kind to him. They treated him with respect and dignity, and that is how he died. I will be always grateful to Hospice and it is my favorite charity.
Phyllis J. Hamme
Elizabethtown, PA

My mother entered LGH in March of 2008. Up until entering the hospital they had said her breathing problems were coming from her sinuses. What they found was lung cancer. They said it had come from breast cancer that she had 5 years previous. To help her breathe they operated and put in a pump to extract the fluid from the sacs around her lungs. She was then put in palliative care. A nursing home wouldn't take her being on the pump, so I knew Hospice would. She entered Hospice in April 2008. The care she received was exceptional. Everyone from the nurses to the Chaplin was wonderful. We received compassion, respect and friendship during our darkest hour. Our thanks to all at Hospice. God Bless.
Marie Harden
Leola, PA

My husband was at Conestoga View. He was very sick. There was a boy in the bed right across from him. This boy's mother said to me, my daughter works at Hospice. She told me to call you and have Hospice come to see him. I called, they came out to see him and they prayed for him. Two days later he passed away. It was a blessing for him. Thank you so much for everything.
Audrey A. Harnish
Willow Street, PA

I have been a volunteer for 22 years and spent the first 10 years as a patient care person in homes. I was always in awe of the services that Hospice gave to these people and the wonderful way that they cared about me as well, however, that was only the tip of the iceberg in what I knew. In October 2006 I was about to begin my own journey in knowing what Hospice means to families, when my husband entered their facility. Words can never express all that we received from your staff. What an eye-opener it was to me, a volunteer, who thought she knew everything about such a wonderful organization. Thank you again, Hospice of Lancaster County.
The programs offered to grieving families have to be the best that anyone could ever find, especially for the children through the Coping Kids program.
I am very proud to tell people that I am a volunteer for Hospice of Lancaster County.
Jill Harsh
Lancaster, PA

Lynn Woomer was a very good friend of my wife when they worked together at Weis Market. She was my wife's maid of honor when we got married in 1968. Lynn unfortunately passed away quite a few years ago of cancer. We decided to honor her by sending an annual check to Hospice of Lancaster County in the amount corresponding to the amount of years we were married for that year. We have now reached 42 years of marriage on July 20, 2010.
Larry and Linda Harsh
Lancaster, PA

My dad Walter Hebensberger received such wonderful care from Hospice in his last six months of life. They helped me so much. Patty McCormick was his Social Worker. She put up with a lot from my father, with his old German ways and his alcoholism. He could really give everyone a very hard time. Steve Sensenich was his nurse and my dad, fortunately, loved him. Steve could do just about anything and my dad listened. Steve was so caring and gentle. My dad had to be catheterized and Steve was the only one dad would let do it. He said it never hurt when Steve did it. Dad passed away in December of 2003 at your facility. He was in and out about three or four times at the end. He wanted to be there. Those wonderful people took such great care of him that I never worried when I had to go home. Thank you and God bless you all for your devotion.
Kristina Hebensberger
Manheim, PA

We only had Hospice services a short time for my mother. Everyone from Hospice was so very kind and nice. We appreciated all those who were there for us. God Bless!
Betty A. Heisey
Mount Joy, PA

In 1999, when my husband was ill, Hospice was there for both of us. Without the help of Hospice I could not have cared for my husband in our home. I am very grateful to Hospice.
Dorothy Herneisen
Manheim, PA

In January of 2007, my brother, Donald W. Brown, died of cancer. Hospice of Lancaster County was by his side at Conestoga View. The staff and volunteers were so kind and caring. I will be forever thankful to Hospice.
Deborah B. Herr
Quarryville, PA

In early September 2001, my husband, Jake Fisher, was at Hospice. There are no words to describe the care and help his family and I received in the brief week. Everyone I know that has been in Hospice either at Lancaster or Mount Joy has favorable stories. So, to all staff, nurses, etc. may the Lord bless you.
Pauline L. Hess
Lancaster, PA

My husband died January 12, 2007, after we had been married only 9 months. We had been together seven years, but only married nine months. There was a woman I knew from work briefly, I heard that she had lost her husband a month before me, so I called. We decided to go to PATHways Center for Grief & Loss together to try to work through our grief. We went to the monthly meetings and several workshops, of course, the candle lighting at Christmas was very touching, especially the first year after our losses. Hospice helped us hear how others were coping; we laughed and we cried. I feel I owe a lot to Hospice and I now have a new and loving friend who knows what I've been through.
Pollie E. Hess
Elizabethtown, PA

In Memory of Keith Hoyt, who was a mentor and dear friend. Keith was diagnosed with stomach cancer in June 2008. He touched many lives with his faith and caring heart. Keith said, "People are placed in your path of life; some for trial, most for positive growth." Towards the end of Keith's battle he was in Hospice care for 2-3 weeks. Ruth, his wife, could not stop talking about how wonderful Hospice care is, the supportive staff and what good care Keith and Ruth both received. Keith lost his battle with cancer on December 28, 2008. Hospice staff still keeps in touch with Ruth.
Tammy Hiller
Willow Street, PA

I know that you took good care of my niece, Jessie Drey. She was like a daughter to me. When she was little, I had her all of the time on week-ends. While she was a nurse in Lancaster, my husband had cancer. Jess always came to see him when he was in the hospital. She always called him her boyfriend when she was small. She helped me be strong while he was sick. She told me, you know what's coming any day so you must be ready. It will be 20 years, June 14, 1990, since he passed away. You also had a wonderful service at her funeral. Keep up the good work. God bless.
Mae E. Himmelberger
Port Clinton, PA

The hospice nurses who helped my mother actually helped us all by bringing calm and peace to our house during a confusing and traumatic time for us. I will always be grateful for the patience and thoughtfulness that they demonstrated during the weeks they spent with us.
Christine A. Hollister
Lancaster, PA

My husband passed on January 29, 2002 when he was at Hospice. He had such wonderful care when he was there. I want to say thank you once again. I certainly appreciated it.
Betty M. Jackson
Strasburg, PA

My Hospice journey has three branches. My father-in-law, John Sr., passed away in March 2001. One year later my husband, John Jr., was diagnosis with mesothelioma with a prognosis of twelve months. His Hospice relationship and care was intense, lengthy and unusual. Many people do not realize the many facets of support that can ease the care journey and increase the patient's comfort. Our journey lasted eighteen months with Hospice's help. It was the glue that helped me "keep it together". Within a year after my husband passed away (March 2004) my mother-in-law became a Hospice patient while living at Mennonite Home. Hospice care and services helped me survive those years.
Kathleen Jaczynski
Lancaster, PA

Our sincere appreciation goes out to all at Hospice for the care and compassion shown to our friend, Al, and his wife, Kendra. May God bless all of you and continue to bless you with the strength to carry His work here on earth.
Arlene and Dick Jarvis
Lancaster, PA

My dad Harry (Bud) Johnson was cared for by Hospice in 1994 before his death and my wife's Dad, Joe Greinder, was cared for in 2004 before his death. We'll always remember the experience we had through the Hospice workers. No matter who was scheduled to come and care for our dads, these people had everything in common. Knowledge of their job, kind and caring people is what was shown. They would sit down and explain in detail what they were going to do and what we needed to know to care for them. Hospice is well known and we would recommend you to anyone in need. Thanks so much and job well done.
Charlie and Louise Johnson
Paradise, PA

Five years ago you all gave my 40-year-old son, Robert Walker Jones, Jr. such wonderful care. When he asked us to take him back to your care we knew he knew what was happening to him. You accepted him back, as well as his family and all his friends who all spent as much time as possible with him till the end. Thank you for allowing so many to spend his final days with him.
Joan A. Jones
Wyomissing, PA

In April, 2008, our dad, Joseph Malfucci, suffered a severe, irreversible stroke. Hospice of Lancaster County stepped in to aid in dad's care, and to comfort and advice us, his children. Our step-mother was with us through the final weeks of Dad's life, and we all appreciated the professional support we received from Hospice.
My personal story did not end with Dad's passing. For a full year, we received newsletters from Hospice of Lancaster County which addressed our very specific needs during the dark months of grief. The newsletters were informative, uplifting and brief, and I read them, saved them and re-read them. I've shared those newsletters countless times since then, with friends and family who have lost loved ones. Many have contacted me to say that the PATHways articles were so helpful and reassuring, touching on feelings and concerns that were difficult to express.
We appreciate your compassion. The mission of Hospice of Lancaster County serves an immediate and on-going need, comforting the terminally ill and their families' during life's most difficult of journeys. Thank you from all of us, and thank you for this opportunity to share our story.
Louise Mancuso, Robert Malfucci and Margaret Craigue
Brooklyn, NY

In October of 2004 our daughter Jennifer, who was diagnosed with terminal cervical cancer, was told nothing else could be done. Her doctor called hospice. The hospice nurses were our angels on earth for the next four months. Their care of Jennifer was about quality of life, not dying. Two years later our family saw hospice's compassion again when they cared for my mother-in-law. I can't begin to tell you how thankful our family is for Hospice of Lancaster County.
Jacqueline R. Murr
Lancaster, PA

Everyone at Hospice who cared for Jack during his illness at home were truly "angels from heaven." Also, some of the special services provided, especially the music and massage therapy were extremely helpful to him.
When Jack was transferred to Mount Joy, not ony did he receive exceptional care from the nurses but also the doctors. Their compassion, care and understanding were very special blessings.
We would certainly encourage others to use hospice care when needed. Our deepest appreciation to all.
Clara Reed
Manheim, PA

I want to say Thank You to each and every person, from doctors, nurses, nurses aides, maintenance and anyone else that helped my wife, Mary, while she was there. She was a very special person who had a lot of medical problems, pain and special needs in her daily care. There were times when Mary had to go to different hospitals, skilled facilities and other trips for blood work or x-rays. On almost every occassion the pain was compounded because everybody seemed to be in a hurry. I want to let you know that from the minute we arrived on March 10 until Mary's death, your staff could not have been more caring, compassionate and considerate of Mary's needs.
James W. Sahd
Millersville, PA

Congratulations on 30 years of caring! My husband was diagnosed with metastasized, irreparable gall bladder cancer in early spring of 2003 and given two to five years with five considered as a "medical miracle." We went through a year of 'watchful waiting' and three of various chemo-therapies, which helped but as predicted, couldn't cure.
In November of 2007 hospice care was recommended to help monitor his medications and oversee changes of bandages and wound care. Our hospice nurses were a comfort in overseeing, in support and medicine changes over the following 14 months. Yes, he surpassed the five year "miracle" by seven months, and credit goes both to our oncologist and our many hospice nurses, chaplain and support team. Thanks, Hospice of Lancaster County, for the blessing you are.
Priscilla Weidman
Lititz, PA

We are the parents of Dean Edward Wert Jr., who died May 29, 2006 at the Essa Flory Hospice Center in Lancaster. He had lived in Kentucky, but moved back home to Pennsylvania about a a month before his death. Hospice of Lancaster County had everything set up and ready when he arrived: hospital bed, potty chair, walker, even oxygen, which he never needed. Either a nurse, aide or social worker was there almost every day. Everyone of them were so caring and compassionate! We can't say enough about them. There aren't words to explain the peace we felt, knowing he was receiving the best care possible. And when he was at the Inpatient Center on Good Drive, we hated to see the first nurses shift end, but every nurse who came on was just as wonderful as the last. We can never repay you for the care he received. Thank you from the bottom of our hearts.
Dean Sr. and Dottie Wert
Quarryville PA